Sunday, 25 August 2013

HOW TO KNOW SHE IS CHEATING

Don’t deceive yourself into thinking that your woman would never cheat and don’t be too hasty to conclude she’s cheating either. If while/after reading this article, you discover that your woman is guilty of committing any sign listed below. Perhaps that’s an indication that something is not right about your relationship. In any case, why not look for an appropriate time to set things right. Well, I’m just a writer and I've done my findings. Maybe it’s time for you to follow your intuition. DISTINCT CHANGE IN APPEARANCE. Ladies that are considering a new guy often become obsessed with their looks, it’s likely that she is cheating on you when she suddenly changes hairstyle, wear new fragrances or buy new cloths than she ever did before. She might be trying to look good for someone else. Well, all rapid changes in a lady don’t necessarily mean she is cheating. Maybe it’s her new Job and she is trying to step up to its level, or is she just making some big changes in her life? ... Discernment is needed. HER WHEREABOUTS IS RATHER AMBIGUOUS THAN DIRECT. It’s common for unfaithful ladies to be vague about their whereabouts. And they often make up ridiculous excuses to cover up their tracks. That’s when questions like “Where are you?” gets a response like “I’m somewhere around the office” instead of something direct like “I’m in that restaurant outside the office”. You should be concerned, most likely something is wrong. SHE BECOMES MORE ARGUMENTATIVE All of a sudden she becomes nit-picky and defensive, she argues with you over little things. She could be saying in a sense that she wants out of the relationship and she is probably seeing someone else. SHE HAS A MYSTERIOUS FRIEND She suddenly starts hanging out with this mysterious friend and claim he’s her co-worker or a friend from long ago. She refuses to do a proper introduction of him, she generally keep him under wrap and hesitate to share any detail about him. WELL, do you need an M.SC to figure that why? SHE BECOMES AUTONOMOUS One of the biggest sign a lady is cheating is if she breaks from the two person unit. She becomes autonomous. Instead of her usual use of ‘WE’ she becomes a fan of ‘I’. That’s a sign telling you that you aren't part of her future plan s and she’d prefer doing things on her own. SHE DETACH HERSELF FROM YOUR FAMILY She detaches herself from your family, giving you lame excuses. She may stop hanging out with your friends and family. The possible reason for this is that she’s probably feeling guilty and believes she can feel less guilty if she less immerse in your life. SHE IS SECRETIVE ABOUT HER SCHEDULE If your partner gets increasingly secretive all of sudden, that suggests that she has something to hide. Her phone is always on vibration and always with her. While in the sitting room together and her phone vibrates, she becomes unnecessarily agitated. And when you ask who it was that called, her response will be sharp and rapid. SHE GETS EMOTIONALLY DETACHED When she no longer cares about things related to the relationship. She has a cold, distant vibe that feels as if a large wall is up and you can't do anything to break it down. SHE STARTS ACCUSING YOU Another common sign you are being cheated on is that she constantly accuses you of the very same thing she is guilty of — cheating. She may drop hints that you are having an affair because her own guilt is starting to wear on her. BE UP-FRONT WITH HER. Tell her you have something on your mind, and ask if she has time to talk in a private space. Don't accuse her (such as, "I know you're cheating!"), but do express your feelings (like "I feel like you're losing interest in our relationship"). Notice whether or not she gives you an answer. If she isn't cheating, she has no reason not to be straightforward and reassure you that everything is fine. If she is, she might talk in circles without really saying anything. If she becomes defensive or tries to turn the tables on you, this might be her guilt talking.

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